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The Truth Really Hurts

Tuesday, March 15, 2005

The truth hurts! diba?
Tama ba ako?
When reality slaps you with the truth, it hurts right?
Bakit kaya?
Siguro tatamaan ka ng sobrang lakas...
I've been slapped with the truth too many times kaya medyo manhid na ako...
Pero nasasaktan pa rin ako...
Siguro yung ibang tao na hindi pa nasasampal ng katotohanan siguro...
Sobrang sakit diba?
Pano kapag nalaman mo na nakasakit ka ng feelings ng ibang tao?
Mas masakit kaya malaman ang katotohanan?
Pano kung malaman mo na dahil sa isang maliit na bagay... nasira ang pagkakaibigan mo..
diba mas masakit yun... kasi nalaman mo yung katotohanan na ikaw na yun nakasira...
Siguro mas masakit kung ikaw mismo hindi marunong magpatawad...
Ang tawag nila ata dyan ay MANHID!!
isa kang MANHID kasi hindi mo nararamdaman ang sincerity nung apology or yung
torture na dinadanas nung tao... kakahingi ng kapatawaran mo...
Ang ibang mga taong manhid... walang nararamdaman lalo na mga emotions ng ibang tao...
Sinisira rin nila ang sarili nila sa pamamgitan ng paninigarilyo at saka labis labis na pag-inom...
Ang pangit tignan!!!
O diba ang sakit mataman ng katotohanan...
THE TRUTH REALLY HURTS!!
wala tayong magagawa dyan kasi masakit talaga ang katotohanan eh...
Kung hindi ka pa natatamaan ng katotohanan... maghanda ka na... dahil babatayan ka nyan...
Ganito ang tunog nyan:
PAK! PAK! PLAK! BOG! TSUG!
Sa sobrang sakit... hindi ka na makatayo...
Sa sobrang sakit... magiging mamanhid ang pakiramdam mo...
Sa sobrang sakit... mapapasigaw ka ng HELP!! I NEED HELP!!!
OUCH!! ANG SAKIT!
Yan ang papasabi sayo ng katotohanan...
PASA ng katotohanan...
Yan yung klase ng pasa na mahirap matanggal hanggat hindi mo tinatanggap ang katotohanan...
BLACK-EYE ng katotohanan...
Yan ang bubulabog na sakit sayo sa gabi dahil nasaktan mo ang sarili mo pati na ang kaibigan mo...
LATAY ng katotohanan...
Yan ang kikirot sa katawan mo kasi unti unti mong sinisira ang sarili mo!

The truth hurts! believe me...

bato bato sa langit ang tamaan... GUILTY!!

Dexter Ongpauco blogged at 10:08 PM (0) comments

A little story....

Tuesday, March 08, 2005

Here is a story that you may or may not know.... based on a true story...

One day, a boy named Dave who studied at CSB met a beautiful girl named Ellise. They met during the first day of classes. They became really good friends and their friendship grew stronger and stronger. One day, Dave felt something inside his heart that he knew he felt before, he asked himself, "Ano 'tong nararamdaman ko? Kakaiba ata ito." He asked around his blockmates especially the girls, he asked one of them, "Shane, ano 'tong nararamdaman ko? hindi ko maintindihan kung ano nga ba 'to. Pwede mo ba akong tulungan?" Then Shane told him that she would help him out, she said, "Alam mo Dave, siguro in-love ka. Kaya hindi mo maintindihan kung ano yung nararamdaman mo." Dave answered, "Siguro nga, kasi everytime I'm around her hindi ko alam kung anong gagawin ko. Hindi ko alam kung anong sasabihin ko sa kanya. Hindi ko sya ma-critic kasi... ewan ko ba?!" Shane told Dave to tell Ellise what he feels about her and find out what she feels about him as well. But Dave didn't do, instead he asked Ellise if they could be best friends and Ellise said "yes." Dave was very happy and told Shane. Shane was also happy for Dave but she still feels that he should have told her how he felt about Ellise.

Dave gave Ellise gifts on special ocassions like Birthday, Christmas and recently Valentine's day. Dave gave Ellise a diamond ring symbolizing her beauty on her debut. On Christmas, Dave gave Ellise a bag, pencil case, and earings for her to use on the new year ahead and Ellise loved the gifts. Recently, Dave gave Ellise a bouquet of red and white roses and a pair of earings that he knew she would and love and she did. Ellise told Dave in the sweetest way, " Dave, hindi ko matatanggap yung earings, pero thank you for the gesture." Dave replied, " Hindi, okay lang yun, wag mo nang isipin kung magkano yun or how much yung ginastos ko, ang important sa akin ay makita kang happy, yun lang." Ellise told Dave, "Dave, hindi, hinding hindi ko matatanggap yan." and she gave it back to Dave, but Dave talked to Ellise, " Ellise, sayo 'to wala na akong pagbibigyang iba kundi ikaw lang." So, Ellise took the earings and thank Dave for the gesture.

As time flew by, Dave noticed something about Ellise, she was drifting away from him. One day, they were both on-line and the chatted for awhile. Then Ellise told Dave, "Alam mo naiinis ako sayo!" Then Dave asked, "Ano nagawa ko?" Ellise replied, "Hindi mo ba alam? Well... better find out." Dave answered, "Huh?! ano yung nagawa ko? I'm clueless." Ellise, "You can't possibly be clueless!" He replied, "Ellise kung ano man yung nagawa ko, please forgive me" She said, "How can I forgive you, kung hindi mo alam kung ano ginawa mo." Dave went off-line, and that statement "Naiinis ako sayo!" stuck to him for the whole day and night. She didn't talk to him for days, and he was asking for her forgiveness for days and days but she wouldn't budge! Dave asked Shane to ask Ellise why she is mad with Dave. Shane told Dave, "Sorry, Dave pero sabi nya she is felt uncomfortable, sorry." Then Dave replied, "Ok lang yun, basta nalaman ko ang kung ano nararamdaman nya, alam ko na rin kung ano gagawin ko. Thank you." Ellise and Dave's friendship faded away, they seperated from each other and she never strucked another conversation with him until now, and Dave lived with a broken heart and belief that Ellise was impossible for him.

Now, Dave believes that there is only one person in this world that can understand you for who or what you are and will love you. He told himself, "Siguro, makakatagpo rin ako ng katapat ko."

What do you think about the story? Hope you like it... Thank you for taking the time to read the story.

Dexter Ongpauco blogged at 10:36 PM (0) comments

There is ony one person for you....

Friday, March 04, 2005

Alam nating lahat na mahirap magmahal...

Pero mas mahirap masaktan kapag nagmamahal ka...

Sabi nila merong "Love at First Sight"

pero infatuation lang yun... kaya hindi na ako naniniwala dun...

I trully believe na there is only one person in our lifetime that will love us..

parang isang kaTAPAT...

aminin man natin o hindi... merong isang taong naitakda ni God para sa atin

Isang taong mamahalin tayo kahit sino pa tayo o kaya kung anong ugali meron tayo

dahil sila ang magtutuwid sa atin....

Mahirap mahalin isang taong alam mo na mahal mo pero hindi ka nya mahal

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Bakit kaya ganun noh? kapag nasabi mo na sa kanya na mahal mo sya...

unti unti ka nyang lalayuan... unti unti ka nyang iiwasan...

sasabihin nya sayo: " Friendship lang ma-ooffer ko sayo"

Sige! friends na lang tayo... pero alam nya na mahal mo sya...

because of this slowly, she will be uncomfortable of your company...

she will slowly fade away... she will slowly forget her promise to you to be friends....

I'M TELLING YOU KNOW!! IT'S VERY HARD!!

iT'S HARD TO LET GO

IT'S HARD TO FORGET

IT'S HARD TO GIVE HER UP...

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BUT DESPITE ALL THIS, I TRULLY BELIEVE THAT THERE IS ONLY ONE PERSON THAT CA LOVE US FOR THE WAY WE ARE... DON'T GIVE UP!!

MAKAKTAGPO KA RIN NG IYONG KATAPAT SA BUHAY...

Dexter Ongpauco blogged at 10:10 PM (0) comments